Birth Story

hi alls..

Nak share experience about my delivery process. Memang sangat menyakitkan n memenatkan. Bila fikir balik, ya allah, tak mahu mengharungi pengalaman itu sekali lagi.

20th August 2010

10pm

Memang tension sangat time nie coz takde tanda2 langsung. Langsung takde mood nak buat apa2, nak tengok tv pun takde mood. Bila cakap dengan hubby, duk complain je dgn dia. Asking him when is his son planning to come out. Moody betul ler. After cakap dengan hubby, baca novel coz takleh nak tidur, selalunya online time tue, tapi macam takde mood.

21st August 2010

12am

Started to feel contractions. Every 15-20 minutes once. And also kerap visit toilet. But tak confident coz ingatkan as usual braxton hicks. Call hubby suruh dia datang esok even though time tue langsung tak fikir akan bersalin on that day. Hubby actually memang nak datang after habis kerja, dia nak bagi surprise. Ada gak bagi tau hubby yang rasa sakit2 tapi rasa2nya braxton hicks je.

1.30am

Sakit dalam 10 minutes once...From 12.30 am duk jalan-jalan dalam bilik. Coz sakit n coz ppl say that masa contraction its good to walk, boleh cepatkan proses bersalin. Then masa pergi toilet ada keluar lendir with darah sikit. Then baru confident that this is the real contraction. Turun bawah nak bangunkan my mom, but masa tengah turun je, my mom bangun dengan sendirinya sambil tanya wats wrong. Then told her, so, dia pun buatkan some ubat, dia kata kalau minum ubat tue, if real contraction, u will continuously feel the pain, if not sakit akan hilang. Ubat tue actually air rebusan jintan putih. After minum, sakit every 7 minutes pulak.

3.00am

Sakit every 5 minutes, asyik pergi toilet je, so, I naik atas balik coz dont want to disturb my dad n daughter yg tidur kat bawah, actually my dad tak tidur pun, dia baring2 je, tapi kesian pulak. My mom pun ikut naik atas, but then start sakit 3 minutes once n everytime pergi toilet ada lendir with blood. So my mom pun sediakan makanan untuk sahur for my family.

3.30am

Call hubby n told him sakit n ada bloody show. He pun terus mandi n makan sahur n bertolak dari terengganu.

4.00 am

My mom pun bangunkan my brother n sister n dad n they had sahur. Meantime my mom buatkan air teh + telur mentah, 2 times pulak tue, susah benar nak telan, nak termuntah, but my mom forced me to drink.

5am

After everyone bersahur and kemas semua, me, my mom, dad n bro pergi TMC. Tak sampai 3 minutes from home dah sampai. My sis n daughter tinggal kat rumah coz princess tidur lagi time tue. Midwife check n cakap baru buka 2 cm, lambat lagi. Buat ctg, contractions memang amat kuat.

6am

After ctg, i berjalan-jalan dalam delivery suite, memang sangat menyakitkan. Every 1 hour buat ctg, after buat i ask them to open, lagi sakit kalau baring2, i prefer berjalan-jalan dalam delivery suite tue.

9.30am

Dr. Noor Fidak pun sampai, dia tengok ctg, baby's heart beat ok, contraction pun kuat, she is happy, then check bukaan cervix, baru 2-3cm. She said maybe another 4-5 hours. Ya, allah, ingatkan atleast 4cm dah buka.

10 am

Hubby pun sampai. Suppose to arrive earlier, but then dia tidur kat few places coz mengantuk. Time nie pun contraction masih kuat. Tengah fikir nak ambil epidural atau tak, or just take pentadine.

12 am

Midwife check bukaan n baru 4 cm. My mother in law pun datang hospital, but couldnt meet them coz only my mom n hubby boleh masuk dalam delivery suite. My dad, sis, bro, daughter, mother in law n hubby's aunt semua tunggu luar. At this time, memang tak larat sangat nak tahan sakit contraction. Then I decided nak ambil epidural. Told my doc, doc pun panggil anesthetist. Before that doc pecahkan air ketumban.

1pm

After ambil epidural, alhamdulillah, dah tak sakit but still can feel the pressure when there is contraction. Time ambil epidural, air ketumban lagi banyak keluar, habis lantai basah. But then lepas tue of coz takleh nak berjalan dah. Just baring2 je coz kaki numb, tak rasa apa2 except for the pressure.

2pm

Baby's heart rate started to turun naik pulak. Sekejap turun sekejap naik. Nurse pun selalu keluar masuk bilik untuk monitor. doc pun sama. Me n my mom memang sentiasa berdoa n berzikir. I since start contraction malam tue sampai bersalin memang duk berzikir n baca ayat kursi. After that I pasang surah yasin kat hp. Then alhamdulillah, baby's heart beat started to pick up. But at times masa contraction high sangat, dia akan turun then naik. Doc gave time till 5pm, kalau tak lahir by then, have to czer.

4pm

Bukaan dah 8cm, but baby's head still not in the right position.

5pm

Bukaan dah 10cm, that after doc dah stretchkan. Then starts the pushing process. Push-push sampai hilang tenaga, but baby's head stuck, tak mahu keluar. I even suggested to doc suruh guna forcep. But then doc kata takleh coz baby's head is high. Doc bagi final timing until 7pm. If baby tak keluar by then, no choice but to czer. I dah start rasa sakit kat pinggang balik, my drip epidural pon dah habis, then I asked them to tambah lagi satu dose.

6.30 pm

My mom dah tak sanggup tengok I suffer, she keluar from the delivery suite, then hubby temankan I pulak. He really supported me. The midwife n nurses n doc really support me, helped me alot during the pushing moments.

6.59pm

Alhamdulillah, my prince pun lahir secara normal with episiotamy. After dibersihkan, hubby pun azankan baby. Then doc start jahit. Lama gak, nearly half an hour. Gosh it was a long n painful experience.

Malam tue tinggal kat single room dengan hubby. My mom semua balik coz have to prepare sahur. Then pagi tue my bro hantar sahur for my hubby.

22nd August 2o1o

Semua saudara mara datang visit kat hospital. Then around 5pm discharge from the hospital.

Syukur sangat kat Allah swt, eventhough I suffered alot but akhirnya dapat bersalin normal n alhamdulillah my boy is safe n healthy. Now memang busy sangat2. No time to be online. This birth story nie pun punya ler lama nak habis type. Berapa kali gap buat kerja lain before sambung. Nie pun dah seringkas yang boleh.

Insyaallah will update later.